the explanation

So it has been quite a while, but now that it's December I thought I would let everyone in one a little secret. For those of you who know me well, you know that I don't like Christmas. Yes, I'm aware that most people almost fall over from a heart attack after they hear this, but I'm going to attempt to explain it.

It first starts with the fact that I despise winter and cold more than anything in the world. I would rather be sitting outside in the blazing Mississippi heat swimming in my sweat than be cold. It's just not fun. And there is only so much bundling I can do before it's ridiculous, so I'd just rather spend my time complaining. And with Christmas comes very cold weather.

I've always wondered why people need to get ready for Christmas so early. Is it necessary to put your tree up around Halloween just because, well heck, Christmas will be here in a few months. Just wait people. I promise the 25 days of December gives you plenty of time to decorate and enjoy it if that's what you want.

Also, the main reason I have a problem with Christmas is people never ever remember the REASON FOR THE SEASON. Simply put, in America we really only celebrate Commercialized Christmas, not Religious Christmas. It is so frustrating to me to hear all the talk about Christmas music, and trees, and presents, and food, and lights, and SANTA. Where is Jesus in all of this? Does no one remember that the purpose of CHRISTmas is celebrating His birth???

I realize some of you know that I never believed in Santa growing up (another huge shock, I know). I understand it is a fun tradition and neat for kids, but let's be real...he isn't real. And I promise you, I turned out just fine without believing. I want to tell my mom every year that I don't want any presents, but I can't bring myself to do it. I know she loves a good tradition, and we've always done it the same way, so I just accept it. I do feel blessed to have grown up in a family that wasn't extravagant about our spending and gifts at Christmas because it isn't necessary when we don't need new things.

You may want to call me Ebeneezer like Brittney does, and I'll take it, but all I'm asking is for the focus of Christmas to be turned around for once. I might be able to enjoy all the festivities that come with Christmastime if we could first celebrate the birth of our Savior. I find that my favorite parts of the season are those related to my church.

The Christmas Eve service is probably my single most favorite night of the whole year. There is just something magical about that night and the message it provides. Leaving in darkness and silence really sets the mood that I feel we should have leading up to Christmas...anticipation of what is to come and calm focus for His birth.

So I challenge you this Christmas season so not be bitter or sinister like I may seem to be, but to turn your focus around. Remember what this holiday is here for. Reflect on His special place in your life. And put Him FIRST. It's that simple.

Enjoy this time of year
xoxo, Maria